Have you ever walked into a new church & felt out of place, like you were ignored, like you didn’t belong? Maybe you didn’t dress like everyone else, vote like they did, or raise your kids the way they said you should. Maybe you’ve been on the other side, judging others with unwritten rules you’ve unconsciously added to the Gospel. Have you ever caught yourself assuming other Christians should be more like… you? Not more like Jesus, but more like your opinions, your preferences, your way of doing church? When that starts to happen, the church stops feeling like a family, as we all start sizing each other up. Selfishness dresses up as strength, churches are torn apart instead of being built up, & don’t feel like home anymore. And the truth is—most of the time, it’s the people who think they’re spiritually strong who cause the most damage. But in the Kingdom of God, strength isn’t in how confident you are, how free you are, or how right you think you are. It’s measured by how much you’re willing to lay down your personal agenda for the sake of your brothers & sisters