My relationship with my mom has always been a little bumpy, and even though now that we are both older we are getting along better, there is still quite some distance between us. However, after reflecting on her visit here in California, I have realized that I have a lot to be grateful for. And I want to inspire you to also look not just for the things that bother you with your close relatives, but try to see where some of those exact things may have actually been a driver for something positive in your life.