A couple once shared how a simple shift changed their entire marriage. For years they focused on each other’s weaknesses—unfinished chores, forgotten dates, differences in personality. But after attending a retreat, they were challenged to list five things they appreciated about each other daily. At first, it felt forced. But within weeks, gratitude softened their tone, deepened their connection, and restored warmth where frustration once lived.

Gratitude in marriage is not a denial of real issues; it is choosing to see the gift God has given you in your spouse. The Proverbs 31 woman models a life of goodness toward her husband—not perfection, but intention. Likewise, every marriage thrives when appreciation is spoken, trust is cultivated, and honour is intentionally given.

Gratitude shifts marriages from criticism to celebration. It helps us remember that marriage is not two perfect people—it’s two people learning to love like Christ.