At first glance, some behaviors look wholesome, kind, even perfect — but dig a little deeper, and the truth starts to stink. In Nigerian society, where charisma can mask control and “doing the most” is praised, it’s easy to confuse toxic manipulation with genuine care.

This episode unpacks those so-called “green flags” that low-key scream emotional manipulation, control, or deep insecurity when you really sit with them. Join the conversation, You will love it!