In this episode, Pancho and Kim discuss the various facets of grief, highlighting the kind that doesn’t always look like grief, but quietly shapes who we become. They explore how unprocessed loss can distort our sense of self and how collective grief ripples through culture, often disguised as frustration, distraction, or burnout. Together they unpack the ways grief hides in plain sight, the anger it sometimes wears as armor, and why learning to face it might be one of the most radical forms of emotional intelligence we have.