In this conversation, Akilah discusses the often-ignored topic of grief, particularly in relation to unschooling and parenting. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing untended grief in our lives and how it can manifest in various forms, not just through the death of loved ones. The discussion explores how societal norms and expectations can hinder our ability to process grief, and the need for more open conversations about it. Akilah shares her journey of integrating grief literacy into her life and how it has transformed her relationships and understanding of herself and others. In this conversation, Akilah and Adrienne delve into the complexities of grief, personal healing, and the philosophy of unschooling. They explore how grief can be a liberating force, allowing individuals to reconnect with their true selves and their past. The discussion emphasizes the importance of trust and tenderness in parenting, particularly in the context of unschooling, where children are given the freedom to explore their interests without the constraints of traditional education. The speakers highlight the need for emotional intelligence and the recognition of diverse experiences in the journey of self-discovery and community building.