Death hurts—and it keeps on hurting in ways time doesn’t erase. In this episode, Ray reflects on the nine years since his wife’s death and the “hole in the soul” that never filled in. Drawing strength and companionship from Victor Hugo’s poem Tomorrow at Dawn, he explores how grief changes shape but remains part of us. You’ll hear why accepting the hole isn’t giving up—it’s how we live, love, grow, and honor those we miss. If you’re carrying your own emptiness, you’re not alone. Walk on with us.

5 Salient Points

• Grief is long, unpredictable, and unavoidable for emotionally healthy people.
• Over time, acute pain fades—but the absence remains as a “hole in the soul.”
• Acceptance doesn’t close the hole; it lets us live with it.
• Victor Hugo’s Tomorrow at Dawn mirrors the universal ache of enduring loss.
• We honor our loved ones by continuing to live, grow, and walk forward—hole and all.