Grief isn’t always about what we’ve had and lost – sometimes, it’s about what we never got to have. The versions of ourselves that didn’t get to grow.

The lives we might have lived under different circumstances.

This short reflection explores the quiet ache of wondering who you could have been – if a relationship had lasted, if a dream had taken root, if life had unfolded differently.

It’s the kind of grief that’s often invisible, but deeply valid.

You’re allowed to feel that loss.

You’re allowed to grieve the you that never came to be – without shame, and without apology.