In this episode, Kepo tackles one of the most overlooked reasons your habits aren’t sticking: your identity is out of alignment.
You’re trying to change your life with hustle and effort, but nothing is clicking. Why? Because the version of you doing the work is not the version of you who gets the results.
In this raw and powerful solo episode, Kepo takes you deep into the core of lasting transformation. Who do you believe you are? From job titles to possessions, from talent to motherhood, most of us build our identities on things that can be taken away. And when life shifts, we fall apart. But there is another way.
This episode is your wake-up call to redefine who you are and anchor your identity to something unshakable. Once you know who you are, everything else, habits, goals, progress, flows from there.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• Your identity cannot be tied to things that can perish, change, or be lost
• If your self-worth is based on work, status, or relationships, it will crumble under pressure
• Anchor your identity to something solid, constant, and unshakeable
• Redefining your identity changes how you show up, even in the face of failure or setbacks
• Real progress starts when your habits are fueled by your true identity, not just willpower
• You get to choose your identity. Just make sure it can withstand anything life throws at you
BEST MOMENTS
00:00. “Who are you without your accolades, job titles, or physical appearance?”
04:57. “If you can’t define who you are without your job or possessions, everything else you’re building is on shaky ground”
10:36. “You lose your job and now you lose yourself? That’s not identity. That’s dependency”
13:49. “You get to be a mom. But that’s not who you are at your core”
16:32. “Place your identity on something unshakable. I draw mine from the One who created me”
18:43. “I had to redefine my identity from a pretty face to something deeper”
22:08. “Now I can apply habit tools because they’re tied to my purpose, not just mechanics”
23:29. “Make sure your identity is built on something that can withstand anything life throws at you”
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