Mark Vander Ley, Blogger at parentingboysraisingmen.com, [email protected], Clinical Supervisor at Chaddock School in Qunicy, IL, and author of two ebooks available on amazon.com - "Stuff Dads Say" and "Parenting Peace." Starting with outlining the problems boys and men face in today's society, he explained how Christianity provides a model for growing boys into men with positive relationships and discipline while avoiding punishment.