Growing Up Sucks! Podcast

Everyone gets anxious when it's time to graduate and find a job. Luckily, we have Kelsey Thompson on the podcast to help Heather in her job search. Listen in as we cover the top five things you can do to get employed in your field.

What are the top five pieces of advice you'd give a brand new college student? Heather shares her answers. I think they are definitely good ones. But I wouldn't have thought to start with one that so clearly hits your wallet.

How do you get over losing your best friend? What happens when, a long time later, one of you reaches out? Can we reframe what happened in the past? Also, are we really making the right attributions when we speculate on the causes of our friends' actions? And what should we do when we speak up and our friend doesn't react well? Finally, what should we do going forward?

Heather worked for two years and then went to college. It taught her to budget her money carefully and to only spend money that she actually had in her pocket. Importantly, no credit cards. She's now ready to learn the next stages of budgeting and building wealth. Listen in as we have a wide-ranging conversation from buying a house to insurance, from the true cost of college to living wills, etc...

Some people take on too much. And they only notice it when things have already gotten too stressful or deadlines are missed. We discuss noticing your own behavior and watching how you react to things. These are great indicators of how you are doing. But at the core of the problem might be "Why are you always trying to prove yourself?" Can you accept that you are already good enough? You don't need to prove yourself forever. And can you quit an activity when it is the right thing to do?

Emily is giving herself to her students before, during, and after class. And she's studying for her Master's. Hopefully a Ph.D. someday, so she can help even more. But her struggles are real and sometimes painful. Among her many medical issues, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome creates perhaps the greatest challenge. Listen in as she educates all of us about how powerful a person can be.

Katie graduated college right at the start of the pandemic. Recent college graduates ARE making it in the real world. She used college to figure out where her boundaries were for adding things to her plate and she worked on her confidence. Now, she's in charge of her life and ready to succeed. Included in her advice is learn from other students, get some leadership experience, compartmentalize some of your problems, and keep active outside the classroom. And, if anyone needs to hire someone like her, she says she's a "wonderful number two." She'll explain.

Kyle is worried about his future. Frankly, he's worried about his whole generation's future. Partly because his own future is up in the air. He's changed major. He doesn't know what he wants to do when he graduates. He's worried about his school debt load. I talk to him about a bunch of things. How to become a millionaire. How to not worry about the uncontrollables. The value of mentors and networking. And in the end, he commits to do three things.

It can be a very scary situation for many young people - to share with their parents that they are gay, bisexual or transgender. One brave woman shares her story. But her story is not typical. Her father, though heterosexual, was very open and accepting of her announcement. But she was still very nervous about telling him.  Unfortunately, many young adults get a negative reaction from one or both of their parents. We discuss some tips on how to handle this situation and express our hope that the world will continue to become ever more accepting.

Seth is a recent college grad who has a full-time job but has also started his own media property called In-Between Media. Now it has a staff, thousands of hits, and lots of content (though it still does a great job with fantasy football). Despite some serious struggles growing up, Seth ended up being chief editor of his college's newspaper and is now very happy with where he's at in his life and his career. He offers great advice for young adults, particularly about getting the "real" value from college.