Today we are talking about the nuances of family dynamics, especially the conversation and transition around adding a second child to the family. Since Lara is in the midst of this herself, we thought we'd have a candid conversation about the ups and downs of this time.
What's In This Episode:
- Do you innately know that you want more children?
- The reality that sometimes the first child is so disruptive in your life that you question a second
- Jenn shares her vision for her family
- Lara discusses her desire for three or more children
- Jenn shares her upfront conversation with her husband about adding to their family
- Discussion about the fear of regret
- Lara talks about her second pregnancy surprise
- Jenn reflects on how long it took for the decision to become a plan
- There is no one right way to have the second child conversation
- The financial component of the decision
- Should older children be considered in the decision to add to the family?
- Special needs or other factors and how they may impact a decision
- Lara discusses her biggest concerns about transitioning to a household of four
- The importance of not keeping score in your marriage
- Lara talks about the biggest challenges she faced in bringing another child home
- Things that Lara and her husband did to help Sawyer transition to having a sibling
- Lara discusses her day-by-day routine as a mom of two