John asks how long do you wait to have physical intimacy? The honeymoon phase of a relationship provides a huge spark to wanting and having sex. Yet this impulse jumps over the asking of why do you want to be physically intimate with this person. Pleasure seeking makes this a compelling reason to ask these questions ahead of time, and before you get stuck with someone with whom you don't find much else in common.

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