Guys, you can knock a woman on her heels and impress her if you ask interesting follow up questions about having a future. John advises you to ask where she sees herself in the next 2 to 5 years and with what kind of guy? If it seems like you're the type then you have a chance, if you don't fit the description then consider yourself a stepping stone and leave before you get hurt. If you think she'll reconsider her feelings about you, you're taking a chance on your future possibilities because she may raise the bar and then what are you left with? Consider what's important ahead of time and then reflect this in your questions. Is she a problem solver? A nurturer? A family woman? Remember, you're thinking about your future, not just about tonight's fun times...

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