We can all use a fresh focus. John encourages you to think about your influences and the people you associate with. Do they have problem solving skills you can borrow ? You can shape your world and the people in it by using the best of the best and getting a fresh focus. Being vulnerable is risky but it's where we can find the truth. Let go of judgement of what you hear and use an open mind to create a different listening of your partner. Perhaps a more loving and successful outcome is in your midst by having a fresh focus.

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