This world is made a mess by people claiming to follow God's plan. My own family included. None of this mess with Abraham was Hagar's idea. She was abused, used, and rejected... Yet she was dearly loved by God and blessed by Him. It makes me sick when some preachers disparage her and also her son because of the symbolism applied to them thousands of years later. How many times did God appear to her? How many times did God appear to you? Don't be a jack wagon. Get over yourself.