Hang Outwitus

Growing up, sometimes we learn to hide parts of ourselves just to fit in. But what happens when those habits follow us into adulthood?

In this episode of Hang Outwitus, we're getting real about growing up gay, the things we learned to hide, the beliefs we carried about ourselves, and what it took to start unlearning them.

We're talking about fitting in, self-acceptance, insecurities, judgment, and the ways our past can shape how we see ourselves today.

How much of who we became was genuinely us, and how much was shaped by what we thought we had to be to feel accepted?

This is an honest conversation about identity, growth, and learning to love the parts of ourselves we once tried to hide.

Join the conversation in the comments. What is something you had to unlearn to become more comfortable with yourself?

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Two husbands. A whole lot of impossible choices.

We’re playing Would You Rather, and some of these questions are harder to answer than others. No sitting on the fence, no choosing both, and no escaping the follow-up questions.

Things get interesting when you have to explain WHY you picked your answer.

What’s your answer? Play along in the comments.

Some relationships are complicated. Some are genuinely toxic.

In this episode, we’re talking about narcissistic family members and friends, the experiences that shaped how we see these relationships, and what happens when the people closest to you become the people you have to protect yourself from.

This is a serious conversation about boundaries, manipulation, recognizing patterns, and learning when you have to choose your own peace.

No perfect answers. Just our experiences, our perspective, and a conversation we felt needed to happen.

Because sometimes protecting yourself means changing who gets access to you.

It’s the last day of September, Halloween is officially creeping in, and somehow the conversation got a little suggestive.

Just two husbands, one conversation, and 10 minutes max.

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You’d think coming out was a one-time thing.

Yeah… about that.

In this episode, we talk about the reality of having to come out over and over again — family, friends, work, new people, new places, and all the awkward, funny, and sometimes frustrating moments that come with it.

Because apparently, once is never enough.

And because this is us, there’s plenty of honesty, laughs, opinions, and a little “are we seriously doing this again?” energy along the way.

Two husbands. One never-ending coming out story.

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In this QUICKIE, we unbox the Lark M2, check out the new setup, test the sound, and compare it to the mics we were using before.

A little unboxing, a little mic talk, and plenty of laughs along the way.

Just two husbands, one conversation, and 10 minutes max.

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What are our go-to drinks?

In this QUICKIE, we’re talking about the drinks we reach for, our favorites, and what we’re ordering when we’re out together.

Just two husbands, one conversation, and 10 minutes max.

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Welcome to the new Hang Outwitus QUICKIES.

Shorter conversations. Random topics. Just us.

From here on out, QUICKIES are capped at 10 minutes max — quick, relaxed, and straight to the point.

Watch the full QUICKIE on YouTube and listen wherever you get your podcasts.

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EP. 4 | Can We Guess the Movie Reference?

It’s game time.

In this episode, we put our movie knowledge to the test with a guessing game built around movie references. How many will we recognize? Who knows their movies better? And who is about to get completely humbled?

Grab a drink, play along with us, and see how many you can guess before we reveal the answers.

Listen to the full 30-minute episode on Spotify and watch on YouTube.

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A birthday weekend, a trip to Mannheim, and a couple of new tattoos.

We’re talking about the trip, the tattoo tradition, what we got, and everything in between.

Just us, catching up and sharing a little piece of the birthday weekend.

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