We revisit our long list of hacks to make the holidays a happier time.

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• Listen to Happier episode 145
• 12 Personal Commandments 
• Eight Splendid Truths

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We discuss a know-yourself-better question related to how we conceive of ourselves at different ages. Plus we talk about a way to find excellent book recommendations.

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• Join the The Happiness Project: Revisited course
• Since You Asked advice podcast
• Shop the biggest journal sale of the year!
• Substack Live with Sari Botton 
• "Oldster Magazine" on Substack
• Less Than Zero by Bret Easton Ellis (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• All My Friends Are Going to Be Strangers by Larry McMurtry (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• The Secret History by Donna Tartt (Amazon, Bookshop) 

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We talk about why it’s such a happiness-booster to raise your hand to organize an event or undertaking—to realize that if you don’t do it, no one will. We also share a hack for making it easier to take medication, and why it’s a good idea to “suffer fools gladly.”

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• Shop the Black Friday Sale in the Happiness Project Shop
• Use the gift guide for thoughtful and easy gift ideas 
• Elizabeth: is catching up on War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• Gretchen is reading: Rules for Visiting by Jessica Francis Kane (Amazon, Bookshop) 

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The awe-inspiring true story of “Mountain Man” Dashrath Manjhi is an example of how we can transform pain into action that can help others. After his wife died for lack of medical care, Dashrath Manjhi spent more than twenty years single-handedly carving out a path to make his remote village more accessible.

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I joined Kim and Penn Holderness on their podcast "Laugh Lines" for a funny, thoughtful talk about parenting after the kids move out—a great listen as families come back together for the holidays.

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It’s easy to get swept up in a cycle of holidays that feels more like a relentless to-do list than a source of joy. In this Celebration Roundtable, we talk about how to embrace the holidays as opportunities for intentional connection and meaning.

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• Francis Lam
• Priya Parker
• Kate Bowler
• The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin
• Happier at Home by Gretchen Rubin
• Stone Soup by Marcia Brown (Amazon, Bookshop)

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It can be a real challenge to find new, useful ideas for gifts. We suggest many of our own recommendations, plus we include dozens of ideas from listeners. 

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• Request bookplates now to get them in time for the holidays!
• Sign up for The Happiness Project Revisited and get 40% off enrollment 
• Florist Wire
• Electric Foot Warmer 
• Whiskey of the Month Flaviar
• Uncommon Goods Pop-Up Escape Room
• Clear Case for eReader 
• Briogeo Sleek Stick 
• SK-II Facial Masks
• Surratt Makeup Brushes
• La Mer Lip Balm
• Snuffle Mat 
• Flirt Pole with Lure
• Trigger Point Cane
• Back and neck massager
• Heating pad for neck
• TOMOO 9 wheel muscle roller
• Tom Cruise Cake
• Doan's Bakery
• John Kelly Chocolates
• Boston Big-Buckle Shearling Birkenstock
• Portable light-Newmowa
• Lumify Eye Drops
• Sea Scooter 
• EcoNour tray for car
• Gift-Giving Toolkit
• Elizabeth is reading: Fried Green Tomatoes by Fannie Flagg (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• Gretchen is reading: The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie by Muriel Spark (Amazon, Bookshop) 

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As a writer, I'm particularly drawn to great endings, and I read the extraordinary closing paragraphs of Lytton Strachey’s biography Queen Victoria. Strachey imagines Victoria's fading mind retracing the vanished visions of her long history—passing back through decades of memories in a poignant, poetic cascade that captures both the end of a life and the end of an era.

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We talk about the challenge of choosing a one-word theme for the upcoming year, as well as the surprising value of gossip. Plus we talk about a fun reason to have a party.

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• Send recommendations for your favorite books to give for the holidays

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We talk to Lori Gottlieb—psychotherapist, bestselling author, and co-host of the “Since You Asked” advice podcast—about what she wishes she could tell her patients. We discuss questions like why patients lie to their therapists, how to know if you’re the toxic friend, how to handle a challenging holiday gathering, and how to end rumination.

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• Request bookplates now to get them in time for the holidays! 
• Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• Elizabeth is reading: The British Are Coming by Rick Atkinson (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• Gretchen is reading: A Weekend in New York by Benjamin Markovits (Amazon, Bookshop) 

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