Relationships are not about happiness. They’re about respect, values and goals. Also making your children happy doesn’t mean you allowed them everything because you are the adult and you set rules and boundaries making your children happy is giving them a safe place, guidance a stable home and love. Feelings are not something we can grab they’re not long last thing they come and go so making important life decisions on how you feel in the moment can be very dangerous. Fulfillment is the highest achievement of happiness. We might seek fulfillment in our job in our careers but fulfillment truly comes from family. Fulfillment comes from giving and also sacrificing yourself not just taking.