I’m not anti-school… but something about it didn’t sit right with me.

In this episode, I share why I’ve chosen to homeschool my kids (for now) and why this conversation goes far beyond school vs homeschool.

Because this isn’t just about education.

It’s about what kids are actually being taught… and what’s being missed.

I started noticing how early kids begin to:
- look for the “right” answer
- second guess themselves
- feel pressure to get things right

And it made me question…

Are we raising kids who can think for themselves or kids who are really good at following instructions?

In this episode, I unpack:

•  why I’m not anti-school, but I do question the “one size fits all” model 
•  the difference between memorising vs thinking 
•  how early conditioning impacts confidence and self-trust later in life 
•  and why emotional intelligence is the piece I believe is missing 

Whether your kids are in school or not — this conversation matters.

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Most women think something is wrong with them when they start questioning their life.

On paper, everything looks fine.
You’ve built the life you thought you wanted.
You’re doing all the “right” things.

And yet… something feels off.

You feel restless. Disconnected.
Like the version of you who created this life… isn’t the version of you anymore.

And that’s the part no one really talks about.

In this episode, I’m breaking down what’s actually happening when you feel like this, because it’s not a breakdown.

It’s identity change.

We go into:

•  Why so many women hit this point in their 30s and 40s 
•  The identity you built in your 20s (the achiever, the good one, the strong one) 
•  Why that identity starts to feel heavy… and no longer fits 
•  The difference between identity collapse vs identity expansion 
•  Why your brain tries to “fix” the feeling instead of understand it 
•  And how childhood patterns and conditioning are still shaping how you respond to change now 

This is the part most women get stuck in…

They try to go back to who they were.
They try to fix the discomfort.
They try to make their current life “work” harder.

Instead of realising… they’ve outgrown it.

I’ll also walk you through how to actually move through this season in a grounded, practical way without blowing your life up, and without abandoning yourself in the process.

Because this isn’t a crisis.

It’s the moment you stop living from who you were… and start stepping into who you’re becoming.

If you’ve been feeling like you don’t recognise yourself lately, or like you’re craving something more but can’t quite explain it…

This episode will land.

Want to connect?

@the_stacey_allison_

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Most women don’t realise how disconnected they’ve become… because on the outside, everything still looks like it’s working.

They’re getting things done. Holding it all together. Showing up for everyone else.

But internally?
They’re in their head. Overthinking. Running on pressure. And completely disconnected from their body and intuition.

In this episode, I sit down with past client and friend Erin Norris, who shares her journey from burnout, near-death experience, and emotional overwhelm… to learning how to actually slow down, reconnect, and trust herself and her gifts again.

We talk about:

• Why so many  women are stuck in their head (and don’t even realise it)
• Erin's personal journey and her wake up call
• What is energy healing and reiki and when they may be useful on your journey
• How disconnection from your body leads to overthinking, anxiety, and burnout
• The subtle signs your body is trying to get your attention (and what most women ignore)
• Simple, practical ways to use your breath throughout the day — without needing more time
• Why learning to trust yourself again changes everything (in business, motherhood, and life)

If you’ve been feeling constantly “on,” struggling to switch off, or like you’ve lost connection with yourself… this episode will hit.

You don’t need more strategies.

You need to feel safe enough to get out of your head and back into your body.

Listen now.

Connect with Erin Norris:
Find Erin on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/erin_jm_norris?igsh=MTcwcjBnYnphZHQ1Ng==

This episode is a little different from the normal.

I’ve just landed from a three-day immersion with Jessika Anne and honestly… my brain is still processing it.

It wasn’t a fluffy “feel good” personal development weekend.
It was confronting, eye-opening and at times uncomfortable in the best possible way.

And it reminded me of something I think a lot of women misunderstand about growth.

Most people think you do the work once…
you have the breakthrough…
and then everything in life magically changes.

But the truth is.. real growth is a practice.

Over those three days we went deep into emotional intelligence, fear patterns, and the internal programs that quietly drive so many of our behaviours.

And one of the biggest takeaways for me was this:

Most women aren’t stuck because they’re lazy, unmotivated, or not trying hard enough.

They’re stuck because they’re running patterns they don’t even realise are there.

In this episode I share some of the biggest insights that hit me during the immersion.

This conversation is a bit more raw and reflective than usual.

It’s not a more polished educational episode.

It’s a real reflection on what happens when you step into deeper work and start seeing yourself — and the world — a little differently.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still questioning why something feels off…

This episode might give you a completely different lens on growth.

Want to connect?

IG - @the_stacey_allison_

Email - [email protected]

FB - www.facebook.com/stacey.allison.731

Many women believe they’re confident.

But if you look closely, that confidence is often built on something external -  achievement, approval, and external validation.

The promotion.
The praise.
The gold star.

And the moment those things disappear, so does the feeling of being “enough.”

In this episode, Stacey explores the subtle way many women unknowingly tie their self-worth to performance. 

You’ll hear why so many successful women feel restless when they slow down, why sitting still can feel uncomfortable, and how constantly achieving becomes a way of maintaining a sense of safety.

Inside this conversation, Stacey breaks down:

• How childhood praise patterns can shape the way you see your worth today
 • Why many women attach confidence to doing rather than simply being
 • The hidden reason rest can feel unsafe for high performers
 • How to recognise when your confidence is externally driven
 • Simple reflections to help you reconnect with who you are outside of achievement

This episode is for women who have built impressive lives — careers, businesses, families — yet still feel like their sense of worth rises and falls depending on what they produce.

Because real confidence isn’t something you prove.

It’s something you feel when you no longer need to.

If you’ve ever wondered who you are outside of your achievements, this conversation will give you something to think about.

Want to connect?

IG: @the_stacey_allison_

Email: [email protected]

FB: www.facebook.com/stacey.allison.731

You don’t stay stuck because you’re scared of change.

You stay stuck because change asks you to let go of something that once kept you safe.

In this episode, I unpack a truth most women never consider:

Fear isn’t about the future.
It’s about loyalty to the past.

Loyalty to the identity that earned you approval.
Loyalty to the role that kept the peace.
Loyalty to the version of you that made everyone else comfortable.

Inside this conversation, we break down:

– Why growth can feel disloyal
 – How identity and family roles shape your hesitation
 – Why grief often hides underneath indecision
 – The real reason you keep circling the same internal conflict
 – The one question that dissolves overwhelm:
 “What am I actually afraid of losing?”

If you’ve been asking yourself,
 “Why can’t I just move forward?”

This episode will shift the question entirely.

Because you’re not stuck.

You’re protecting something.

And once you see what that is, you can choose differently — from clarity, not force.

Want to connect? 

IG - @the_stacey_allison_

Email: [email protected]

You get up.
You show up.
You handle things.
You hold it together.

From the outside, your life looks stable.
Successful. Fine.

But inside?
It feels… flat.

Not dramatic.
Not chaotic.
Just a quiet sense that you’re moving through your life instead of actually being in it.

This episode isn’t for women whose lives are in crisis.

It’s for the capable, intelligent, self-aware woman who’s starting to realise she hasn’t felt truly alive in a long time.

Inside this conversation, we unpack:

– The difference between coping and actually living
 – Why emotional flatness isn’t failure — it’s protection
 – How high-functioning women slowly disappear without anyone noticing
 – Why rest feels uncomfortable (and sometimes even panicky)
 – Why you can’t think your way back into aliveness
 – And what your nervous system has been trying to protect all along

If you’ve ever thought:
 “I should feel happier than this.”
 or
 “Nothing is wrong… but something feels missing.”

This episode will feel uncomfortably accurate.

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If this resonated, my Reset & Rise retreats are designed for exactly this season — not to escape your life, but to reconnect to yourself inside it.

Learn more here or book in a call and we can chat more.
www.staceyallison.com.au/resetandriseretreat2026

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In this heartfelt and expansive conversation, Kobi Pollock is joined by her dear friend and fellow women’s mindset coach, Stacey Allison, to dive deep into the magic and meaning behind their Reset & Rise Retreats.

Together, they explore why Reset & Rise is so much more than a girls’ weekend away and why so many women feel the quiet (and sometimes loud) pull towards retreat when life starts to feel heavy, disconnected, or misaligned.

This episode speaks into:

• Choosing change over escape
• Softening the nervous system
• Being seen without fixing
• Moving through fear
• Belonging as you are
• Healing together
• Living differently after retreat

Kobi and Stacey also share what the Reset & Rise Retreat feels like, who it’s for, and how they hold a deeply safe, nurturing space that meets each woman exactly where she is whether she’s exhausted, overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply craving more.

If you’ve been feeling the pull…
 If you’ve been asking “Is this all there is?”
 If something in your body knows it’s time to choose yourself…

This conversation is for you 🤍

✨ Upcoming Reset & Rise Retreats

• March 20-22nd – Noosa
• May 15-17th – Montville

Listen with an open heart, take a breath, and trust what stirs within you.

If you’ve done the programs…
read the books…
followed the coaches…
and still find yourself ending up back in the same emotional patterns — this episode is for you.

In this conversation, I’m calling out one of the biggest lies in the personal development industry.. that doing “the work” once should’ve fixed you by now.

We talk about why personal development isn’t a quick fix — it’s a practice — and why so many women feel like they should be further ahead, even after years of self-work.

This isn’t a shame-based episode. It’s an honest one.

If you’ve ever thought:
 “Why am I still here when I know better?”
 or
 “I’ve done so much work — why doesn’t it stick?”

You’re not broken.
You’re just being asked to stop chasing quick fixes and start committing to the small, daily practices that actually compound.

And if you’re ready for a mentor who does this work differently — grounded, practical, nervous-system-led — you’ll know exactly what to do next.

Everyone’s talking about “getting your pink back.”
Your spark.
Your energy.
The version of you that feels alive again.

But what if you didn’t lose anything at all?

In this episode, I break down why so many women feel flat, disconnected, or mentally overloaded — even when life looks good on paper.

This isn’t burnout.
It’s not a motivation issue.
And it’s not because something is wrong with you.

It’s what happens when you’ve spent years suppressing parts of yourself to cope, succeed, and survive.

This episode is for women who are capable, driven, and outwardly “fine” but know something isn’t quite right.

You don’t need fixing.
You don’t need a glow-up.

You need your internal reference point back.

And that can be rebuilt — calmly, deliberately, and on your terms.