Shame does not regulate—it entangles. At the quantum level, gendered shame functions as Thomas Campbell’s “holographic glue,” binding humanity to collapsing wavefunctions of patriarchal domination and Lilith’s exiled rage. This essay posits that modern gender wars stem not from biology but from epigenetic karmic loops where shame mutates into Hawkins’ Level 20 (Guilt/Shame), enslaving men and women in Carl Rogers’ “conditions of worth” while their shadows metastasize as Dark Triad pathologies.