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Have You Ever Wished You Were Better at Conflict?
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Have you ever wished you were better at conflict?
Maybe you avoid it completely, stuffing things down until they explode. Maybe you charge straight in and regret your tone later. Maybe you lay in bed at night rehearsing a conversation that hasn't even happened yet, playing out the worst case scenario on repeat like your brain just won't quit.
Conflict is one of those things that most of us know can be good, but in the moment it never feels that way. It feels personal. It feels emotional. And when pride gets involved, even good intentions can go sideways fast.
This episode is an honest conversation about what it actually looks like to handle conflict well, in marriage, with your kids, and with the people around you. It's about humbling yourself even when the other person doesn't, choosing connection over being right, and learning to rehearse faith in your mind instead of fear. Because what you think on matters, and Philippians 4:8 has something to say about that.
You're not alone in this. And you're not the only one still learning.
🕐 Chapters
0:00 — Intro
0:15 — How do you view conflict?
2:40 — Pride and why it makes conflict so hard
5:05 — Do you need time to process or do you want to hash it out right now?
7:26 — Rehearsing scenarios in your mind and choosing faith over fear
9:51 — Navigating conflict with your kids
12:10 — "This is how I'm feeling" vs. "You're making me feel this way"
14:36 — Philippians 4:8, think on these things
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Have you ever wished you were better at conflict?
Maybe you avoid it completely, stuffing things down until they explode. Maybe you charge straight in and regret your tone later. Maybe you lay in bed at night rehearsing a conversation that hasn't even happened yet, playing out the worst case scenario on repeat like your brain just won't quit.
Conflict is one of those things that most of us know can be good, but in the moment it never feels that way. It feels personal. It feels emotional. And when pride gets involved, even good intentions can go sideways fast.
This episode is an honest conversation about what it actually looks like to handle conflict well, in marriage, with your kids, and with the people around you. It's about humbling yourself even when the other person doesn't, choosing connection over being right, and learning to rehearse faith in your mind instead of fear. Because what you think on matters, and Philippians 4:8 has something to say about that.
You're not alone in this. And you're not the only one still learning.
🕐 Chapters
0:00 — Intro
0:15 — How do you view conflict?
2:40 — Pride and why it makes conflict so hard
5:05 — Do you need time to process or do you want to hash it out right now?
7:26 — Rehearsing scenarios in your mind and choosing faith over fear
9:51 — Navigating conflict with your kids
12:10 — "This is how I'm feeling" vs. "You're making me feel this way"
14:36 — Philippians 4:8, think on these things