Many times Christians have tremendous difficulty in forgiving those who have wronged them. They might even struggle with it for many years even as they keep trying to forgive. They frequently assume that there is something wrong with them as being hardhearted and otherwise unloving. They fault themselves for not being able to forgive others. Perhaps these unforgiving Christians are trying to do something that God has not called them to do. Perhaps one-sided forgiveness is actually impossible in the absence of an essential ingredient of forgiveness . . . https://www.wordsfortheday.com/index.php/2019/04/having-trouble-forgiving/