Many women think that telling him what they want will take away from the romance but that’s not true.

Where does that idea come from? ROM COM, Hollywood

We want you to show us love and we just expect you know how!

He will typically take his cues from you about what it takes to win with you because he needs to learn how to win with you. (Brenda & jewelry)

He isn't typically going to know a lot about women. He knows other women but hasn't been paying attention to the details.

BESIDES- You don't want him treating you like some other woman! You want him to treat you in a special way that is unique to you!

When you show appreciation for his attempts to win with you, he will keep trying and even try harder.