So, follow my reasoning, if a toddler throws a fit instead store, you do not give them the toy they were screaming for. It's a disaster for teaching them the big lessons. Same for a toddler MAN who keeps asking for the best but gives sporadic, small nuggets, mini size love bits. No, nope ... I go into something that Noone wants to hear. It's this, he won't for you, but, he will for her. Avoid this heart betrayal, don't reward this toddler man with all the good good that comprises this amazing you. No amazing you should go to him until he gets to consistency, reliable, loving your way, considerate, this man, of, your dreams. If, you, give him all of you, the nurture, the cushion, the support, without asking anything in return, then all you're doing is setying up the next girl with YOUR dream man. She will not reward him as you have, without the correct investment, she will have so many more will-nots than you ever did. And he will respect her for it, he will Shape for her, let's talk about it, sees how this sits with you. Not a happy thing to hear, but it could save you your heart. I don't want you holding your heart pieces in your hands, it's not what you deserve.