You're telling yourself some absolutes that will become you, your life's path, purpose by these reviews of your time with your ex exes exs however you spell that. But I really need you to do something different with a purpose of going into memory lane with a different collection purpose. I want you to pull , from the past, the time spent with them, a new sort of treasure you can bring back to your present day, and really ADD to you. This is instead of looking back at the time spent and feeling like a failure. No, absolutely not, you are not a failure, we're not doing that. We are taking only the best and then enhancing this me, that you are, and I accept nothing less from you, for you. Remember that