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In Episode 2 of SHE, we dive into relationships, nervous system patterns, and the truth about why healing changes who we’re attracted to.
This conversation is raw, honest, and unfiltered.
We talk about:
– Why “chemistry” can actually be a trauma response
– The attraction to emotionally unavailable or “bad boy” dynamics
– How dysregulation makes chaos feel exciting
– Why healthy love can initially feel unfamiliar or even boring
– The moment you stop jumping on the emotional rollercoaster
– What happens when your body finally feels safe
This isn’t relationship advice from a pedestal.
It’s two women having the conversations so many women are quietly living through.
Because sometimes healing isn’t about finding someone new.
It’s about becoming someone who no longer mistakes chaos for love.
New episodes drop every Friday. Stay with us - this is just the beginning.
If you’d like to work with us or explore our work further:
Valentina:@where.themagic.happens
www.wherethemagichappensnow.com
Joelle:@divinitylifecoachingrn
www.divinitylifecoach.com
By Valentina Mazzei and Joelle BarbaruloIn Episode 2 of SHE, we dive into relationships, nervous system patterns, and the truth about why healing changes who we’re attracted to.
This conversation is raw, honest, and unfiltered.
We talk about:
– Why “chemistry” can actually be a trauma response
– The attraction to emotionally unavailable or “bad boy” dynamics
– How dysregulation makes chaos feel exciting
– Why healthy love can initially feel unfamiliar or even boring
– The moment you stop jumping on the emotional rollercoaster
– What happens when your body finally feels safe
This isn’t relationship advice from a pedestal.
It’s two women having the conversations so many women are quietly living through.
Because sometimes healing isn’t about finding someone new.
It’s about becoming someone who no longer mistakes chaos for love.
New episodes drop every Friday. Stay with us - this is just the beginning.
If you’d like to work with us or explore our work further:
Valentina:@where.themagic.happens
www.wherethemagichappensnow.com
Joelle:@divinitylifecoachingrn
www.divinitylifecoach.com