We need at times to recognize, be delivered, heal, and made whole from performance driven relationships that were toxic and had us walking on figurative emotional eggshells and jumping through emotional hoops in hopes of gaining a person's love, respect, and acceptance.
Some of us have gone through this in our childhood and it has formed certain negative habits and perspectives that need to change.
Before Jesus did any work, God was pleased with him.
God loves you and is pleased with you.
God wants you to rest and stop driving yourself to prove you are worthy to love and be loved.
Just be.