Why vows at the alter, wedding chapel, church need more thought about Who's doing the promising to another in marriage. Sure, it's the 20 year old Woman making that FOREVER promise. BUT, how can the 20 year old self make a promise for ppl she's never met (inside) which is the 30 year old, 40 year old, 50 year old. Listen as I describe this emotional relationship contract with another that we bring in the government into.