What if our relationships held the key to our personal freedom?

My guest today is Carolyn Garfield. Carolyn is a Divorce Recovery Coach, founder of The Magnetic AF Method, and owner of YogaSix West Boca in Florida. With a certification as a Mastery Method Life Coach, training as a Reiki practitioner, and a Master’s in Counseling Education, Carolyn helps people stop repeating painful relationship patterns by strengthening self-worth, emotional awareness, and authentic confidence, so they attract love that lasts.

In this episode, Carolyn and I share everything we’re not taught (but should be) about love and relationships. We explore the subconscious forces that drive our attractions, the reason we draw certain people into our lives, and how we can use these challenging dynamics to heal ourselves and experience true love and connection. We focus on the greater purpose behind our relationships in the scope of our personal evolution, diving into the topic of soul mates and examining the role that fate and destiny play in magnetizing certain people into our lives. We discuss how the end of a relationship is not a failure in the sense we’ve been led to believe, but rather the turning of a page that allows us to make space for new experiences that will further our expansion. Along the way, Carolyn opens up vulnerably about her own struggles and shares practical steps we can all take to begin building awareness, embracing our authenticity, and taking personal responsibility within our relationships. Join us in this paradigm-shifting conversation as we dispel our modern day notion of fairytale love and move towards a more sensible ideal that is rooted in sovereignty and empowerment.

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction

(02:26) Carolyn’s journey from a challenging marriage to finding authentic love

(16:27) The reason we tend to attract certain people

(19:53) Why we keep repeating the same painful patterns in our relationships

(21:42) How we can become aware of our patterns & use them to heal

(25:10) The deeper love that relationships are pointing us to

(28:45) Dispelling the myth that a breakup or divorce is a 'failure'

(34:19) How do we know if we should stick it out or call it quits?

(38:05) Destiny, karma, & soul mates

(44:57) Calling in 'the one'

(48:21) Building intimate relationships that stand the test of time

(51:32) Balancing sovereignty and interdependence

(54:35) Conclusion

Connect with Carolyn:

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/recoveryafterdivorcecoach/

Coaching | https://linktr.ee/carolyn.garfieldcoach

Connect with Chad:

Website | https://www.chadsasaki.com

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@chad27sasaki

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