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Healing Your Past Hurts Require Love - Part 3
The Process
We are all growing and maturing in our emotions, decisions and opinions. For those of us who are Christians there is a clear path and direction in how we are to respond in difficulties, experiences, accusations, trials and moments of being misunderstood. We all must go through a process and in this we examine our
motives, emotions and reactions to see where we need to change and grow. Let’s look at how someone who is perfecting or maturing in love thinks in certain
situations versus someone who is underdeveloped in their love.
1. When faced with conflict
2. In misunderstandings
3. In accusations
4. In betrayal
5. In communication
When we experience a loss, brokenness, transition or even betrayal, it is important that we do not rush through the pain, but allow ourselves to feel it. We need
to be aware of it. Our ability to feel pain allows us to be able to love deeper; we love harder. When we mask it, we begin to develop inauthentic love which
leads to surface relationships.
The processing, crushing, making, molding, shifting, humbling, squeezing, the pressures of life and the decisions we have to make. Are we going to walk in mature love or will we do what babies do? Will we point fingers, will we complain, will we look for an escape from the process or will we just grow through it to
get to the other side. Thereby maturing in our love.
We must unlearn what we thought was love. We must allow God to go deep. We must be willing to do the hard work so we can perfect our love, so we can mature. How do we grow in our love?
Do I say I don’t care? When we do this we gradually allow ourselves to not be able to feel love. Our love will never be full because it will always be wondering if the pain is around the corner. This will prevent us from fully giving of ourselves and allowing others in our life.
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The Process
We are all growing and maturing in our emotions, decisions and opinions. For those of us who are Christians there is a clear path and direction in how we are to respond in difficulties, experiences, accusations, trials and moments of being misunderstood. We all must go through a process and in this we examine our
motives, emotions and reactions to see where we need to change and grow. Let’s look at how someone who is perfecting or maturing in love thinks in certain
situations versus someone who is underdeveloped in their love.
1. When faced with conflict
2. In misunderstandings
3. In accusations
4. In betrayal
5. In communication
When we experience a loss, brokenness, transition or even betrayal, it is important that we do not rush through the pain, but allow ourselves to feel it. We need
to be aware of it. Our ability to feel pain allows us to be able to love deeper; we love harder. When we mask it, we begin to develop inauthentic love which
leads to surface relationships.
The processing, crushing, making, molding, shifting, humbling, squeezing, the pressures of life and the decisions we have to make. Are we going to walk in mature love or will we do what babies do? Will we point fingers, will we complain, will we look for an escape from the process or will we just grow through it to
get to the other side. Thereby maturing in our love.
We must unlearn what we thought was love. We must allow God to go deep. We must be willing to do the hard work so we can perfect our love, so we can mature. How do we grow in our love?
Do I say I don’t care? When we do this we gradually allow ourselves to not be able to feel love. Our love will never be full because it will always be wondering if the pain is around the corner. This will prevent us from fully giving of ourselves and allowing others in our life.