When you have had a situation in your life that seems to haunt you forever and all you want is Peace of Mind or closure with it. The best thing to do is contact the person involved and communicate with them it's not about whether they see that you're right and they're wrong, it's about hearing each other's sides and finding closure.  It may not change a situation but it will give you closure. If somebody won't allow you that few minutes of their time to make you feel better then just know that you have done the right thing you've taken the steps to get the closure you need and want and deserve and if they won't allow you that time then you're going to have closure but in another way you're gonna find that that person is an individual that would rather be in denial or doesn't want to be uncomfortable enough to make another human being feel better and have Peace of Mind, either way you can walk away with closure knowing that you took the right steps knowing that you did your part and knowing the kind of individual that they are.

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The episode What's Important To Them - is about giving others a chance, sometimes we judge people by their first impression, their looks, their attitude, but inside each person is a bit of a gem and by giving someone a chance to be their authentic selves you just might find what you've been looking for or a wonderful addition to your life. When we give people a chance hopefully we'll get the courtesy back, that it will be extended back to us. e've all had people not give us a chance to be who we are or we feel like we can't be our authentic selves.  This also extends out to people giving each other the courtesy to seek closure and not cut people off when they are trying to make an authentic relationship, to extend that same courtesy to others that we would want given to us and if they don't,  we know who and how those people are going to react in other situations and it's a closure in itself. Don't be afraid to let others be their best selves.

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This episode So Much Is Unnecessary - is about the useless chatter that goes on in our heads about what we should do what we should say or imagining what the outcome of a certain situation is going to be, all of that is unnecessary. If we keep that chatter away from our minds and are open to the universe and let our best self come forward then everything will work out exactly as it is supposed to, you will be exactly where you should be and you will meet the people that you should meet, in short the outcome will be the way that it is supposed to be. We don't need to control situations or anticipate what they're going to be like if you stay in the present moment and if you are your authentic self you're spontaneous best will come out, it shine through better than if you try to pre plan your life your conversations your outcomes.

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This episode It Is Their Reality is about not judging people because of what they know or don't know or because of their quirks in not handling things the way that we think they should or the way that they do. We are all a product of our environment of what we were taught, of our experiences. It is very interesting how you can be around someone who hasn't had a good experience in a certain area how they can suck your joy out. To combat this is simply by being an example and help them find the joy that you have found in certain situations,,  I find this to be particularly true with the holidays people that don't enjoy the holidays may not have had joyful experiences around the season rather it be ourselves or someone else, but we can teach them by being an example without losing our joy. Never let somebody take your joy!

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The episode You Are Needed is about the difference that we can all make in the world. We've been building on previous episodes to make ourselves more grounded more at peace more present but now it's time to live by example for those that came before us or for those that are coming after us, that we set examples not only for them but so it is contagious and hopefully it will venture out into the world. Positive changes have to start somewhere so they might as well start with all of us and by changing our corner of the world it can fan out further and further as people join in to accomplish this much needed change in our world.

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This episode is about the age-old question Does Life Always Have To Be Hard? and the answer is NO. We need to come to the realization that regardless if we sit home frozen in fear or worry the outcome is going to be the same, so living life so it's easy is the absence of fear and worry. When you realize that sitting home and being immobilized because of these negative emotions does nothing for the outcome and if you can train yourself train your mind so you can still enjoy life fully regardless of what the circumstances are and realize that you are not going to waste a minute of your life, because the outcome is going to be just as it should be. Life is full of circumstances some difficult some good and if we need to take action we need to be prepared to do so however the negative emotions that come along with it add nothing to the situation or the circumstances and it certainly doesn't do anything for you. In this episode we go over our ways to whelp keep those negative emotions at bay so you can go on and live your life to the fullest regardless of what circumstances are surrounding you.

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This episode Something Better Syndrome is about so many times, so often we think there's something better out there for us that we get tired or disillusioned with what's in our life whether it be friendships romantic relationships even careers but with that being said sometimes we don't give those people or those things a full chance. If you take the time to get to know I mean really know the people around you, you will find that you have what you've been looking for. Nobody is perfect we all have good bad or indifferent however with having what we need, what we want already and relaxing and that being grateful for that,  you open the door to new possibilities coming in new people new careers etc.

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This episode Thank You God For This Opportunity To Live is about gratitude. First and fore-most we need to be grateful for what we have.  It seems once we accomplish something we're always reaching for the next best thing that's almost out of reach but when you stop and really appreciate what you already have you can relax more you can feel more and then more is added on to you. Also an age-old question is (does life have to be so hard) and the answer is no, we need to keep our priorities straight and be grateful for what we have along with a few other tweaks in our thinking, to live more in appreciation,  gratitude, love all of the wonderful jewels in life that don't cost anything.

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This episode Your Mind Is Your only Limitation is about how our own minds our own thoughts can sabotage our dreams and our goals. We talk a little bit about some techniques you can do to work on getting your thoughts to line up in a more positive way so your body mind and spirit is all one therefore making you the best version of yourself. 

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This episode You Can Do Anything is about when you think of something that you would like to do or feel you should be doing but you don't think you have the know how to do it. With a lot of hard work and focus you can learn anything you can adapt to anything even though sometimes as we mentioned earlier it might take a left turn and that's OK because that is the direction it is supposed to be. Sometimes life it throws you a curveball but after you go through that trial and you look back you can see that it brought you closer to your goal closer to your end game and you will find that it was meant to be and it'll help you in the future to look at journeys good or seemingly badt in a more positive way and know that you are right where you're supposed to be and you're learning what you're supposed to learn, but you will look back one day and you will see why you went through it. 

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