So many of us were taught to be strong, independent, and figure things out alone, but what happens when that mindset sabotages our relationships?
I’m joined by Rachel Elder, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and owner of Connected Couples Counseling, to talk about how therapy can benefit couples at any stage, not just when things are falling apart. We chat about communication, conflict, connection (Rachel’s “3 Cs”), and how being open to being wrong can totally transform your relationship.
Rachel also shares what actually happens in couples counseling, how our past shapes how we show up with our partners, and what to do if only one person wants therapy. If you’re curious about deepening your connection or learning healthier patterns together, this one’s for you.
About Rachel:
Rachel Elder is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and owner of Connected Couples Counseling. She’s passionate about helping couples grow old and grey together and loves getting to the root of what’s really going on. Outside of her work, she’s all about the entrepreneurial journey, iced mochas, and The Office.
In this episode:
Why independence culture can make us resistant to therapy
The three C’s of relationship health: communication, conflict, and connection
What actually happens in a couples counseling session
How your childhood shapes your attachment style
Why both partners need a growth mindset to create lasting change
How to rewire your reactions and stop sabotaging connection
What to do if only one person wants therapy
How to find the right couples therapist for you
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Rachel's Website: https://www.connectedcouplescounseling.com
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