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That relationship ending was the best thing that happened for your growth. People carry this idea that the relationship is supposed to get worse before it gets better, but let me be the one to break it to you--it will not get better, so let's pack it up.

Is it possible to be too self-aware, or too logical? Well, that's my current exploration, because it seems I may have taken things too far and rationalized my way out of relationships. But, of course we can't have this conversation without discussing attachment styles...Hear me out.

"What is your normal?" This question has quickly become one of my favorites to ask, especially in dating. It’s simple, yet it reveals so much about our unconscious patterns of thinking and behavior. It’s easy to assume that what we consider normal is the standard for everyone, which can lead to relational conflicts. However, the more we ask these kinds of questions, the easier it becomes to grow in understanding and develop deeper, more intimate romantic and platonic relationships.

In this episode I share one of my favorite books called 'Anonymous: Jesus' Hidden Years and Yours' by Dr. Alicia Britt Chole. This book has helped me learn how to overcome the temptation of people's applause and build a strong foundation in God when you are in a place of anonymity. 

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This podcast is intended for educational and review purposes under the Fair Use doctrine. I do not claim ownership of any copyrighted material used in this podcast, including excerpts from the book. All rights belong to the respective owners. 

Let's get real, these days everyone calls themselves an empath, but are they really? In this episode, I spill a little about my upcoming book, which dives into the complicated topic of empathy. There is so much more to this phenomenon than what most people understand and talk about. This episode will give you a fresh perspective about empathy, and allow you to grow in this vital skill.

Hello! It's me again, and as you may have noticed a lot has changed. Not only am I stepping into a new season for HMO, but I'm also stepping into a new name. Here's the story of how God 

In this final episode of Season 4 I had the privilege to sit down with entrepreneur and fashion stylist  @styledbynif5645 to discuss why we have to fight to defend the vision God has given us. We've all heard the phrase "great risk for a great reward" and in many ways this is true. Tap in to hear more on our conversation!

About Nifemi

Styled by Nif Inc., led by the visionary Nifemi Ashani, is a trailblazing fashion stylist brand that redefines the industry landscape. Operating under the alias "Styled by Nif," Nifemi Ashani's work is a testament to her unwavering commitment to creative excellence, brand storytelling, and fostering cultural diversity. With a focus on editorial, ad campaigns, and content styling, Styled by Nif strives to ignite innovation and reshape the narratives within the fashion realm. Nifemi's journey has led to the showcase of her styling works in prestigious publications such as Glamour Magazine South Africa and Elle Cote D'Ivoire. Furthermore, her creative expressions have adorned Canadian art galleries like Contemporary Calgary and Casa Lethbridge, as well as the Afro. Scot Gallery in Glasgow, Scotland.

She also stands as the creator and host of Sunday Refocus, a podcast designed to empower emerging creatives within the fashion industry. Through insightful conversations, Nifemi and her guests share valuable knowledge, skills, and resources, offering informal yet invaluable insights drawn from a diverse range of industry leaders and creators.

Connect with Nifemi!
IG: @oluwanifemiiii
LinkedIn: Nifemi (Peace) Ashani

In this new episode, I sat down with singer/songwriter Mercy Joshua, and we had a very candid conversation about how we often mask the pain from rejection by withdrawing or becoming overly attached. We dove deep into the significance of our family dynamic and attachment styles in shaping how we give and receive love and the faith it takes to let people in again. Most importantly, we discuss recognizing and choosing the people God has destined you to be yoked with, whether a friend, partner, mentor or even family.

About Mercy

Residing in Edmonton Alberta, Mercy Joshua is a Worship minister, composer, and lover of Jesus Christ. After personally receiving the message of the love of Christ, she became passionate about sharing that same message with others, which she does in and out of the studio. She has released over 30 songs and has another 30+ songs in the works for this year, which she is excited to produce and record with the help of the Holy Spirit. Having just completed her Bachelor’s Degree in Music Composition at MacEwan University, Mercy also spends her nights composing for film and other media. She’s an avid film watcher and loves studying scores and developing herself as a musician, as she pursues a career as a film composer.

Connect with Mercy!
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If anxiety has ever held you back or caused distress, this episode offers hope for your situation! Discover ways to reclaim control over your mind through a comprehensive understanding of its mechanisms and practical applications of biblical wisdom. Take a seat, and find peace here!

In this episode, we delve deep into the detrimental impact of envy and jealousy on our lives and relationships. Join us as we explore the roots of these emotions, when they tend to arise, and the havoc they wreak when left unchecked.

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