Let’s be real—some of us have been living the same year on repeat. If 2025 is going to be any different, we need to let go of the things holding us back. In this episode, I’m getting honest about the areas where I messed up in 2024 and what I’m not taking into the new year. Some of those include routines and commitments that add no value, and the pity party mindset.

I also share a bit about the things I’m trying more of. If you’re tired of feeling like the same person you were in 2016, 2020, or even last year, this is your sign to change it up.

2025 is not just going to happen. You’ve got to step into it with intention. Let’s stop settling for “good enough” and start trusting ourselves to try something new.

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Submission isn't easy, especially for someone like me who's naturally wired to lead. This year, I've been learning to let go of control and truly submit to God-not just in my actions but in my heart. If you've ever struggled with letting go of control or trusting others (even God), this conversation is for you.

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Who are you when everything you depend on changes? When the job is gone, the kids grow up, or the person you love isn’t there anymore? In this episode, I reflect on why basing your identity on temporary things leaves you feeling empty. I'll also explore how to build a foundation that isn’t shaken by life’s changes.

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In today’s world, consumer culture is everywhere. Social media has normalized extravagant lifestyles, influencing us to believe we need more to be content. In this episode, I dive into the dangers of this mindset and share how faith and how a change in perspective can help alleviate the pressure to buy buy buy!

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For the longest time, I was scared to look back at my own accomplishments. I worried that talking about them made me seem proud, so I buried them instead. But that fear? It only fed my imposter syndrome.

In this episode, I share how I stopped letting perfectionism and false humility hold me back. I’ll tell you what helped me move forward: embracing my failures, stepping out of my comfort zone, and learning to say, “What I did was good.”

Remember, even God looked back on His work and called it good. It’s time you do the same!

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In this episode, I dive into the all-too-relatable experience of stepping into adulthood and feeling like you’re not quite where you “should” be. There's a lot of anxiety that comes with this season, the pressures to do more, and the self-doubt that can sneak in along the way. But there’s another side to this journey—finding peace and purpose in God’s unique plan for each of us. Join me as I share insights on how faith has helped me navigate these growing pains, and how learning more about myself has brought clarity to what really matters. 

This episode is a reminder that growth is messy but purposeful.

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In this episode, I dive into the reasons why many of us, especially women, settle for less than we deserve in love. Using the story of Abraham, Sarah, and the waiting period for their promised son, Isaac, I explore how low self-worth, past trauma, and societal pressures shape our views on love and relationships. Are we willing to wait for the love that aligns with God’s promises, or do we accept the love that’s merely convenient? 

I want to hear your thoughts on this topic, have you ever felt pressured to settle in love? Comment below on how you waited or are waiting for your promise.

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Hear me out, fathers play a vital role in shaping their daughters' emotional well-being, confidence, and relationships. in this episode, I’ll be diving into how early experiences with our dads or father figures can affect the kinds of partners we’re drawn to and the dynamics we find ourselves in later in life.

I'll also break down why we can so easily get the “ick” – that sudden feeling of repulsion when you’re dating or talking to someone. Why does it happen, and could it be connected to unresolved issues in our subconscious mind leading us to self-sabotage? 

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That relationship ending was the best thing that happened for your growth. People carry this idea that the relationship is supposed to get worse before it gets better, but let me be the one to break it to you--it will not get better, so let's pack it up.

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Is it possible to be too self-aware, or too logical? Well, that's my current exploration, because it seems I may have taken things too far and rationalized my way out of relationships. But, of course we can't have this conversation without discussing attachment styles...Hear me out.

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