In this episode, we confront one of culture’s most damaging half-truths: the idea that self-love, self-prioritizing, and self-protection are the highest form of healing. Instead, we step into the deeper truth — that real restoration begins when we stop performing strength and allow God to hold us in the places we’re breaking.

This conversation exposes the lie of “you have to love yourself first,” untangles how Scripture has been twisted into self-centered messages, and invites you into a co-creative, surrendered relationship with God where He shapes, steadies, and rebuilds you.

If you’ve ever felt pressured to “be enough” on your own or to fix yourself before coming to God, this episode will reframe what holy love, holy surrender, and holy breaking actually look like.