Is your spouse mentally and emotionally draining you? Author Gary Thomas explains that when a spouse is controlling or has a murderous spirit, it might be necessary, in some circumstances, to walk away. Thomas reminds us that a person who is anti-God eventually becomes anti-us. If a man or woman is intentionally destroying those around them but wants to stay in the relationship, it might be because they want to preserve their platform for abuse. Sometimes separation or divorce can be a tool to remove the abusive behavior. Thomas contrasts a toxic marriage from a difficult marriage.
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 	Bob Lepine references a previous FamilyLife Today® interview with Dan Allender on 3 types of people who sin against you.  https://www.familylife.com/podcast/series/bold-love/
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Every community is filled with people who are struggling in a pattern that they can't get out of—often secretly. But even small secrets can grow in the dark. Imagine if we all felt safe enough to say, "Hey, I'm struggling." John Elmore talks about opening up about addiction to our community. Could that be the first step to finding freedom?
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	And grab John's book, "Freedom Starts Today: Overcoming Struggles and Addictions One Day at a Time" in our shop.
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Hey, I’m Struggling: John Elmore

When you're stuck in a relentless loop, it's tough to see a way out. From porn and pills to food, money, alcohol, social media, body image, status, and even anxiety—addictions come in all shapes and sizes. Take John Elmore: He battled alcoholism to the point where doctors warned him he'd die if he didn't stop. Fast forward to now: 15 years sober, and he's leading the world's largest, weekly recovery gathering, guiding people toward healing through faith in Christ. If you're struggling with addiction, tune in for John's story of hope.
Show Notes and Resources
	Connect with John Elmore and catch more of his thoughts on Facebook and Instagram @john_a_elmore.
	And grab John's book, "Freedom Starts Today: Overcoming Struggles and Addictions One Day at a Time" in our shop.
	Or we'll send it at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us toward stronger families around the world.
	Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about Addiction by listening to "Addiction–and Our Marriage's Happily Ever After".
	Want to hear more episodes by John Elmore, listen here!
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Freedom from Addiction: It Starts Today: John Elmore

Stepfamily life: It's a rollercoaster. Trying to blend different parenting styles, dealing with trust issues, managing finances—it's enough to make anyone's head spin. Is there any hope for relief? Dr. Darrell Bock offers advice on how to patch up those trust issues, get a handle on your finances, and set yourselves up for a brighter tomorrow.
Show Notes and Resources
	Connect with Dr. Darrell Bock and catch more of their thoughts on, The Table Podcast. and on Twitter @DBockDTS.
	Listen to entire episode on FamilyLife Blended
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	Get ready to tune in or join us in person for Blended and Blessed, running from January 1, 2024, to April 27, 2024! Get ready for the most anticipated event of the year, tailored specifically for stepfamily couples, dating couples with kids, and all those committed to the prosperity of blended families.
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Browsing Your Stepfamily’s Trust Issues: Dr. Darrell Bock

Adjusting to a new family is hard. Dr. Darrell Bock had to join a whole new family after his mom passed away when he was a teenager. He knows all about handling blended family issues like getting along with step-siblings and step-parents, managing money, and talking things out.
Show Notes and Resources
	Connect with Dr. Darrell Bock and catch more of their thoughts on, The Table Podcast. and on Twitter @DBockDTS.
	Listen to entire episode on FamilyLife Blended
	Want to hear more episodes by Dr. Darrell Bock, listen here!
	Get ready to tune in or join us in person for Blended and Blessed, running from January 1, 2024, to April 27, 2024! Get ready for the most anticipated event of the year, tailored specifically for stepfamily couples, dating couples with kids, and all those committed to the prosperity of blended families.
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Stepfamily Frustrations: Dr. Darrell Bock

Is it okay to be angry at God? When life crumbles, anger, resentment, and depression surface. Is there relief beyond Netflix and chocolate? Authors Vivian and Darrin Mabuni share their journey of bringing anger to God for relief. Vivian is also one of FamilyLife's guest contributors to the all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com.
Show Notes and Resources
 	Connect with Vivian Mabuni and catch more of her thoughts at vivianmabuni.com, and on Facebook and Instagram
 	And grab Vivian's book, "Open Hands, Willing Heart: Discover the Joy of Saying Yes to God"
 	Want to hear more episodes by Vivian, listen here!
 	Vivian is one of FamilyLife's guest contributors to the all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com.
 	Donate to FamilyLife Today!
 	Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com.
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