(Question in my DM this morning)
My life is complete shambles in my current time due to my husband loosing his job and is on the brink of loosing everything (house, having to move teen kids out of current school) me starting back to work after being “retired” since 2010)
I’ve been in the process of going to multiple Dr’s to figure out my pain issues “roaming and severe joint pain) I had been sent to a rheumatologist a couple weeks ago and finally ruled out all autoimmune disorders. Funny thing is my last attempt (last week actually) I went to a chiropractor. 🙂  I’m supposed to schedule another visit  but my work schedule has stopped me currently. He actually introduced me to a product called heart math in which I have purchased but haven’t experimented much with it yet. However after speaking to hum I realized that stress, lack of sleep and anxiety is what is causing my high inflammatory issues and most likely causing my pain.  Sooo in searching to improve myself I heard you in a podcast which led me to you...
I’m at a point right now where Everything around me seems to be falling apart and my energy is so low I can hardly do anything once I’m home from work, my husband and I both have become depressed and both are in survival mode if you can even call it that. He most DEFINITELY will not participate in anything. I’ve tried. I often call him a Narcissist and he does the same to me. lol, we are fighting to keep our relationship of near 30 years!! I am in victim mode stemming back to childhood and some abuse from him as well.  He is in Victim mode saying I have caused him stress and am to blame for our current situation and it’s my fault his health is failing and loss of his job.
It’s a giant mess- now that I have updated you on part of my story I forgot my second question. Lol
I am seeking to work on myself and hoping that In doing that it will help heal his trauma that I have obviously caused him. And I can be the wife and mom that I need to be and can’t because I’m stuck in my head and frozen with lack of energy. We obviously don’t have much money since he lost his job June first. 
Where do I begin?

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