We share how to turn holiday parties into low-stress, high-joy social labs by teaching etiquette as kindness and confidence. Simple scripts, clear boundaries, and a quick pre-party chat help kids feel ready, patient, and proud.

• reframing etiquette as tools for connection
• the five-minute pre-party conversation
• magic words that open social doors
• greeting hosts and thanking before leaving
• waiting turns for food, games, and gifts
• polite asking without pressure or entitlement
• house-respect rules and private space
• role-play ideas that make practice fun
• building confidence through small wins

Try this before your child’s next party or play date: take just five minutes for a relaxed conversation. Ask them, what do you think makes someone a great party guest? Or what can we do at our next party to be a good guest?