“Two tracks, the first one is, know your essence. If your essence is aggressiveness and doesn't take no for an answer that could also be your Achilles heel. Almost everybody's strength is their Achilles heel. If you are overly charming and you can charm the pants off of anybody, you're probably not going to work as hard as you should. You have to understand the two sides of the coin of that power. The second is you have to know what home is for you.”