Clarifying male-female dynamics in dating. Women want men to act like a men. Emphasize your leadership with her. Know your role in your relationship. The leader should never supplicate. Understand that others are different from you and that you're not trying to be like them. Stop taking their emotions so personally. You are not able to help others by becoming them. Imagine that you're an actor taking on their role to solve their problem. As a man you must find a relationship mentor.