How is your ego tied to your partner's pleasure? What happens when you forego connection for performative sex? In this episode we discuss the article "How Men Wanting to ‘Focus On Her Pleasure’ During Sex Can Still Be Sexist" by Ginny Brown, the link between your ego and her orgasm, sexual validation, and connection. Questions, comments, email [email protected]

*Note: Co-host Benjamin Ritter is launching a new podcast, LIVE for Yourself. Be sure to follow on Sound Cloud and subscribe on iTunes