Leadership is not simply about strategy, performance, or position. Every decision a leader makes affects the culture, wellbeing, and lives of the people they lead.
In Episode 86 of the Her Resources Podcast, host Linda Misegadis speaks with international leadership strategist, author, and ICTN founder Fay Niewiadomski about restoring the human side of leadership.
Drawing from five decades of global experience, Fay explains why truly effective leadership requires competence, courage, and compassion. She also shares the deeply personal turning point that caused her to leave a university deanship, rebuild her life, and dedicate her career to developing better leaders.
Why leadership is not defined by a title or positionThe connection between emotions, decisions, and business resultsHow “sticky floors” keep talented women from advancingWhy corporate values often conflict with employees’ lived experiencesThe seven elements of Business EQHow self-awareness helps leaders adapt their behaviorWhy high resilience can sometimes increase the risk of burnoutThe consequences of “bankrupt leadership”How purpose creates genuine resilienceWhy women need a trusted support system outside the workplaceFour questions that can help you reassess your lifeA practical framework for communicating boundaries with confidenceFay also discusses her book, Decisions That Matter: Rethink, Reimagine, Reset Your Life, and challenges listeners to consider who they are when their titles, positions, and other symbols of success are taken away.
Learn more about Fay Niewiadomski:
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Produced by LJM Productions.
Chapters
00:00 The human side of leadership
02:13 A new chapter for the Her Resources Podcast
03:40 Fay’s multicultural leadership journey
05:39 How emotions influence leadership results
06:46 Leadership beyond titles and positions
09:01 How childhood stories shape women’s beliefs
11:36 Challenging inherited beliefs
12:05 Glass ceilings and “sticky floors”
15:25 Decisions That Matter
17:09 What separates exceptional leaders
18:35 When corporate culture is only a slogan
19:23 What workplace culture really means
20:13 Burnout and outdated workplace systems
21:26 Reassessing success in mid-career
25:04 When 17 years of work disappeared
26:10 Who are you without your title?
27:24 Choosing a new life and purpose
28:42 From education to leadership transformation
29:30 Communication, influence, and self-awareness
32:05 Why powerful leaders resist feedback
32:49 Charisma, impression management, and manipulation
34:46 Why women do not need to be strong all the time
36:15 Creating a circle of trust
41:03 The seven elements of Business EQ
43:54 How resilience can contribute to burnout
46:43 Your personality is given; your behavior is a choice
48:50 Adapting your behavior as a leader
50:37 Why our definition of leadership is flawed
52:10 The bankruptcy of leadership
54:03 Purpose and the real source of resilience
55:38 Three habits every leader should develop
57:57 Four questions for reassessing your life
01:02:16 Telling the truth with confidence
01:03:07 A four-part framework for setting boundaries
01:08:03 How to connect with Fay
01:09:27 Final reflections