There is only one place you can ever be in this life, and that is right exactly where you are. When you stay stuck in thoughts about where you could, should, or would rather be, you continue to be victimized long after the abuse has ended. However, leveraging the awareness that there is no other place you could ever be than here, allows you to accept yourself fully, heal the hurt, and rise up as the badass you have actually proven yourself to be to this point in your life.