The Ten-Things Podcast

He’s Probably A Fixer

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He's probably a fixer-

  • Women need to understand that this is not a bad thing. This is how he wired.
  • He is going to want to fix your problems because he cares about you. He is not saying “you need to be fixed”
  • It will help him learn how to respond if you can help him know when you are "just venting" about a situation, rather than asking him for his help to fix a problem. "I don’t need you to fix anything here, I just need you to listen and let me vent for a bit."
  • Remember, Most of the time a guy needs a clue when it comes to things involving emotions.
  • (David story)This has been one of the big conflict starters in my marriage. I was always so quick to start giving advice to Brenda when she just wanted to share her frustration about a situation with me. I thought she would like my help and world-renowned expertise to solve this problem she had. After all, I had the answer! Wrong!
  • If we resolve a problem for our woman, we have accomplished something, and it makes us feel good about ourselves. It’s a guy thing.
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