In this episode of Hey Comadre...Claudia and Ilsa talk about marriage...love at first sight...why!!!  Because Ilsa was supposed to be on the show Marriage at First Sight!!!! Do you believe in love at first sight...would you marry someone on a show at first sight?  What about the "L" word??? Is it too soon to say it early on in the relationship or when just dating??? If he says it right after dating...is that a red flag??? When do you say it?  Do you say it first...do you wait until he says it first???