The biggest thing for me in my life has been finding out who God says I am; my Identity. It wasn't the garbage I heard "God has a plan for you" that never came with the actual plan. Who does that? Tells somebody something they can't give you the answer to?! I know they didn't mean to, but when you find the source, and it fills you with hope, power, and joy about who you are, there is literally nothing better to have as your foundation in life.