The Other Side of Success

High-Level Husband: The Journey From Self-Destruction to Spiritual Leadership


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In this episode of The Other Side of Success, Tyler Rutledge welcomes Tommy McCollister, founder of High Level Husband — a global ministry that equips men to lead boldly at home, at work, and in the kingdom.

Tommy’s story is anything but surface-level. Raised in chaos, hardened by trauma, and later fueled by success that left him empty, Tommy opens up about what it took to finally surrender — and how that obedience unlocked everything God had planned for his life.

Inside this episode:

  • ​Why most high-achieving men still feel empty and unseen
  • ​The real reason men struggle to receive love (even from God)
  • ​How marriage was never meant to “complete” you — and what to do when your wife feels more like the leader
  • ​The painful preparation season that shaped Tommy's mission
  • ​Why identity, spiritual leadership, and obedience must be built before external success
  • ​The birth of High Level Husband and how it’s transforming men around the world

Tommy’s voice is raw, bold, and anchored in scripture. Whether you're spiritually stuck or hungry for next-level purpose, this episode will fire you up.


Connect with Tommy:

  • Instagram: @tommymccollister
  • Coaching + Speaking Inquiries: DM or visit www.highlevelhusband.com
  • ​💡 Life-saving habit: Solitude
  • ​🧠 Verse on repeat: 2 Peter 3:9 – God is not slow, He’s patient.
  • ​🌊 Dream trip: The beach, no question.
  • ​✅ Definition of success: A deep relationship with Jesus.


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The Other Side of SuccessBy Tyler Rutledge