A reminder… God will hold you accountable, just like He held Adam accountable for His lack of spiritual leadership in Eve’s life, you can count on that. Therefore, you must be diligent to follow the same acts of Jesus that demonstrates  “how” you must live as His disciple, and that's living with your wife in an understanding way.   

God's Words...
Matthew 4:4 ; Ephesians 4:15; 1 Peter 3:7; Ephesians 2:10; Genesis 2:18; Psalm 139:12; James 1:19-20; 
1 Corinthians 13; Romans 8:26; Psalm 147:3; John 14:16; Galatians 6:8;