It is much easier to look only to your own interests. But that would be a major hindrance to having unity in the church. So in light of the cross of Christ and the grace of God, may we humble ourselves to serve others, to think about others, to talk to others and get to know others.Get to know their hopes, dreams, fears, struggles, and their needs, and then love them. Not in our own strength, or wisdom, but in the power of the spirit for the glory of God.