TW: Graphic language around sex, sex organs, mentions of sexual trauma; I also discuss the current anti trans legislation in the US and violence against trans people including stats. Feel free to use time stamps and skip around!

Well, well, well…. here we are with a sex episode! I’ve been pushed to the edge by one too many people telling me they don’t orgasm during sex. Now as I discuss in the episode there are a host of reason why this may be and an orgasm isn’t always the end goal of spicy time, but why isn’t it even being considered specifically among straight women and men? I’ve investigated and I’m ready to report back!!

babblings Report w/ references & resources: https://open.substack.com/pub/babblings/p/are-yall-orgasming-babblings-report?r=2lilwp&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

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Time Stamps:

3:32 Lunar Eclipse in Virgo

4:00 Venus Retrograde & Feeling Unseen

11:27 Pull A Card

18:39 TW Current Legislation I’m Watching

22:47 Support Trans Rights!

27:28 Let’s Talk About Sex Baby

36:29 Understanding the orgasm gap

38:22 Lack of Anatomical Knowledge

43:12 Gender Labor & Heteronormativity

49:45 Impact of Societal Norms On Pleasure

56:59 My Personal Journey

1:02:45 Ideas for next steps

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